Something that I’ve been reflecting on, post- Easter, is the idea of humility. It’s not my go-to feeling or attribute, and many dear friends and family members may even laugh when they think about me wanting to be more humble. A younger me often struggled with wanting recognition and fame—but the older I get, theContinue reading “A Little Less Me”
Category Archives: Musings
Being a Dad to Older Kids is Weird
Becoming a father for the first time 25 years ago, the author felt unprepared for the emotional challenges of parenting. Managing his children’s diverse emotions was tough, and he realized that his older kids don’t always want to hear his advice. Despite this, he finds solace in the hope that they’ll appreciate his wisdom one day.
Do Good.
The letter of Galatians emphasizes the importance of doing good to everyone. It extends beyond spiritual acts to everyday kindness. Small gestures such as smiling, complimenting, aiding others, or sharing encouragement can spread joy and kindness. This simple reminder encourages continuous acts of kindness, leaving a positive impact on the world.
Love Words
This is our 26th Valentine’s Day together, and Robyn and I have learned a lot over that lifetime. The journey has taught us that love goes beyond sweet words; it demands forgiveness, grace, and mercy. Amidst the commercialized love expressions, we’ve learned that love is defined by these deeper values, shaping our everyday reality and proving that love is indeed work.
Re-igniting the Spark of Creation
The author deleted Facebook and Instagram to focus on family and address an unhealthy social media obsession. This led to rediscovering creativity through introspection, scripture, and writing. The author plans to blog, restart a podcast, and revive a newsletter, feeling inspired and content without social media. The experience has been transformative, leading to newfound purpose and creativity.
What Is Love? (Baby Don’t Hurt Me)
We are less than a month away from the official holiday of love. Over the next few weeks, stores will be full of heart balloons, red roses, aisles filled with cards and chocolates. Everywhere you look, you’ll see reminders to shower the world with love. The trouble with all those candy conversation hearts and HallmarkContinue reading “What Is Love? (Baby Don’t Hurt Me)”
Would You Win Back Time for Me?
The author expresses feelings of “melancholiday” – a mix of sadness and joy during the holiday season, especially on what they call their “First Last Christmas”. The family is preparing for a significant change, as eldest daughter Audrey is set to marry, altering their longtime holiday traditions. The author reflects on the importance of cherishing time with loved ones and intends to focus more on present moments, despite nostalgic feelings.
Everybody Needs Somebody Sometime
Everyone can help someone. Whatever your role, you may have the relationship that helps someone else find their next right thing. Someone close to you may be looking, may be wondering who can help them discover a better opportunity or a new adventure. Even if nothing comes of it, it’s always worth making the connectionContinue reading “Everybody Needs Somebody Sometime”
I’ve Got a Dream (Or Do I?)
“I’ve got a dream!She’s got a dream!I’ve got a dream!She’s got a dream!I just want to see the floating lanterns gleamAnd with every passing hourI’m so glad I left my towerLike all you lovely folksI’ve got a dream!”— Rapunzel, Tangled Like Rapunzel and the rest of the guests in the Ugly Duckling in Disney’s Tangled,Continue reading “I’ve Got a Dream (Or Do I?)”
Just the Beginning
After Jesus’ death on the cross, the story of love seemed to have come to a horrific, tragic end. To His closest friends, it seemed like the end of a dream. They could not believe, in spite of everything Jesus had said, that there could be anything more to the story. He was dead. Buried.Continue reading “Just the Beginning”
Duane S. Montague 